Getting Started
Planning a Wedding Surprise?
Music Lessons Can Help You Make It Magical
Rose Park
4/23/25 • 3 min read
Learn an Instrument for a First Dance, Proposal, or Special Moment
A live performance during a wedding ceremony, a surprise song at the reception, or a meaningful song played just for the parents—these are the kinds of personal moments that elevate a celebration. More and more people are learning to sing or play an instrument to add something special to the day.
Even if you’ve never performed before, personalized music lessons make it totally possible. A good instructor will help you build confidence, work through the nerves, and focus on the song that means the most to you.
And here’s a tip: online music lessons have become the go-to option for wedding prep. They’re affordable, easy to schedule around planning and travel, and best of all, you can learn at your own home! No rushing to a studio or squeezing in a lesson between things—just flexible, one-on-one instruction when it works for you.
Voice and guitar are especially popular choices, but whatever instrument you choose, learning for a wedding moment is one of the most heartfelt gifts you can give.
Try a Half Hour Music Lesson Completely For Free!
60+
Instructors
50,000+
Lessons taught
4.9/5 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Average lesson rating
How Long Does It Take to Learn a Song for a Wedding?
You don’t have to be a lifelong musician to create a memorable wedding performance. Many people pick up an instrument or start voice lessons specifically for a wedding performance. With weekly lessons and the right support, even beginners can go from zero to stage-ready—no prior experience needed.
Here’s a general timeline for learning an instrument before the wedding. How long it takes to prepare a song depends on your previous experience and how much time you can commit each week.
Singing/Voice
If you already have a song in mind, plan for at least 3–4 months of weekly lessons to build confidence and polish your performance.
Guitar or Piano
Beginners should expect to spend around 8-10 months learning the basics and getting comfortable with reading music. Harder songs may take longer.
Woodwinds (flute, clarinet, saxophone, etc.)
Plan for at least 10 months of consistent weekly lessons to develop tone, technique, and musicality. The more familiar you become with it, the easier it gets.
Strings (violin, cello, etc.)
Similar to woodwinds, expect to commit 10 months of regular lessons to prepare for a smooth and confident performance. The longer you stick with it, the better it gets.
How to Start or Gift Music Lessons Easily
Once you have a sense of how long it’ll take to prepare, the next step is figuring out how to begin—or how to help someone else get started. Starting is straightforward—just look up a teacher online and schedule your first music lesson.
At Lesson With You, everything is designed to be simple: affordable pricing, flexible scheduling, and no long-term commitment. You even get a free trial lesson to make sure it’s a good fit.
If you’re gifting lessons to the bride, groom, or a family member, you can purchase a gift card on the gift page. It only takes a few minutes and doesn’t require shipping.
example of a gift form
Explore LWY music lessons
A Lasting Impression—Made Through Music
Few gifts are as powerful as a live performance on someone’s big day. Singing to your partner, playing a family favorite, or even performing as a group—all of it starts with one lesson and a little dedication. It doesn’t take years of training—just a willingness to try and a clear plan.
When the big day comes, you won’t just be giving a performance—you’ll be creating a lifelong memory.
Music Guides for All Levels
Interested in a certain style?
Musical Theatre Singing Lessons | Classical singing Lessons | Rock singing Lessons | Country singing Lessons | Pop Singing Lessons
Classical Guitar Lessons | Acoustic Guitar Lessons | Jazz Guitar Lessons | Rock Guitar Lessons | Electric Guitar Lessons | R&B Guitar Lessons
Rose Park
Rose Park is a graduate of the Jacobs School of Music at Indiana University where she studied Piano Performance and Arts Administration, receiving both Bachelor's and Master's degrees before co-founding Lesson With You. As a pianist, Rose was a prizewinner in many international piano competitions and performed at various summer programs and festivals across the United States, Italy, and Japan.